There are at least seven families hosting a party in their front lawn this coming weekend with the purpose of intentionally building relationships for the sake of the Gospel. Please be in prayer for the following families: Leveretts, Gillos, Kings, Walkers, Morris’, Lenox’s, Akins’, Hodges’, Crowder’s, Lee’s, Dunlap’s, Conger’s. There are many others from our church who will be at home being salt and light to their neighbors.
The following is an excerpt from Jeff Vanderstelt with a few comments by me noted in BOLD and italicize font.
This coming Monday offers a great opportunity for many to engage in new relationships with those around us or to revisit some old relationships with new missional intentionality. Regardless of what you think of the holiday and it’s roots, the culture we have been sent by Jesus to reach is going to celebrate Halloween this Monday. We all have in front of us a wide open door for missionary engagement in our neighborhoods. I want to encourage you not to miss out on the opportunity.
If you are looking to be more intentionally engaged this year, I want to present you with a few ideas for how you can more effectively walk through the open door that Halloween presents to us as Jesus’ missionaries.
BE HOSPITABLE…Don’t just give out candy
- Give out the best Candy. Please, don’t give out tracks or toothbrushes or pennies…kids are looking for the master loot of candy. Put yourself in their shoes. (Give out good candy AND tracts along with your candy. This is just another way to share God’s Word, and you never know who in the family may read it.)
- Think of the Parents. Consider having some Hot Apple Cider and pumpkin bread or muffins out for the parents who are bringing their little kiddos around the block. Make your entry-way inviting so they want to come closer and hang for a bit if possible.
- Be Present. Don’t hide out all night. Come out to the door or hang out on the porch and if they stop to have some cider, get to know their names and where they live in the neighborhood.
- Be Encouraging. Tell the kids you love their costumes and to have a great night. Practice building others up with words.
- Party. If you’re really into it, you may want to throw a pre-Trick or Treating party. Provide dinner and drinks. Then, send the dads out trick or treating with the kids while the moms continue hanging with some hot apple cider, coffee or tea. Then reconvene with the parents and kids together to examine all of the loot (kids love to show their parents and other kids the loot).
- Learn the Stories. If you are out T or Ting with the kiddos or staying back with the other parents, ask questions…get to know their stories. Pay attention to their hearts and their felt needs. Look for opportunities to serve them later. This is how I first got to know Clay (while Jayne was hanging with Kristi and the other moms). I learned his story while we were with the kids and Jayne got to know hers. This led to both of them eventually coming to faith in Jesus.
GO TO THEIR PLACE…Join what is happening elsewhere
- Attend the Party. If others are throwing parties, you may want to join them. If so, bring drinks, food or whatever is needed. Then, serve by helping to clean up. (Remember that you are salt and light in regard to your words, actions, lifestyle for the Gospel. Some people may throw a party involving alchohol. We are to abstain from idolatry, and alcohol is one of the idols in our society.)
- Join the Community. If your community has key events, join them and invite some neighbors to go with you (then get to know their stories along the way). Our area has a trick or treating event on a main street where all the businesses give out candy, the firemen give tours of the fire engines, etc… We go with a group of friends to this each year and consistently meet more people to reach out to.
BE PRAYERFUL…Ask for the Spirit to led, guide and work
- Pay Attention. Ask the Spirit to open your eyes and ears to the real needs around you.
- Stay Dependent. Ask the Spirit to help you listen, care and serve those around you.
- Open Doors. Ask the Spirit for open doors for new relationships and gospel conversations
We are to be about making disciples wherever we are or wherever we go. Making disciples for Christ is a process that begins with building relationships and common ground with those who do not know Him, and is developed over time leading them to the cross of Christ where they have opportunity to be saved, and if so, continuing the discipleship process by teaching them the Word of God. Even if they refuse the offer, we still love and demonstrate God’s grace, as we pray through it all]